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([personal profile] taylorgibbs Mar. 17th, 2012 07:52 pm)
Wow, things have been VERY stressful in the last couple of weeks! I'm sorry for being quieter than I intended.

A perfect storm of major work stress, major technical issues, this paypal crap, family and friend crises, and a persistent and very exhausting illness have combined to make for one of the most stressful periods of my life.

I literally don't remember much of the last three weeks beyond work/sleep/stomach illness/trying to bolster my mom's spirits.

Everything seems to be slowly resolving itself.

Sadly, the family and fried crises aren't so great. My mom's best fiend passed away yesterday, the second major death in my family/friend group since January. If you can keep Diane's family in your thoughts, I'd appreciate it! She was a great lady and will be missed.

Mom is essentially homebound, and she has a very small friend group, mostly the wives of guys who served with my stepdad in the Army Reserves. Most of the couples are facing crises--cancer, early onset dementia, chronic alcoholism, one guy who served several tours in Iraq and Afghanistan (after serving in Vietnam and the Gulf War too) had been rear ended twice since he came home last fall, causing multiple injuries to him and his wife. And now Diane has died, leaving a husband with a major progressive illness.

Hard times.

Work is becoming more manageable, after three weeks of very rough times.

My illness seems to be fading (slowly but surely). It'll be nice to eat and actually keep food down ;)

Tech woes are minimal now--THANK GOD!And I have an amazing backup program now.

Paypal seems to have reversed its decision and there is still a lot of "junk" there, but it too is getting better.

Anyway...as a result of all this, the last day I wrote a word was 2/25. Ugh! Inertia kills my productivity. I'm going to try to nail down some of the Feb prompts and do a belated/abbreviated March post, so keep your eyes peeled.

If you celebrate, have a great St. Patrick's Day!

Hope you're all doing well! Update me!! I feel like I've been out of the loop!

From: [identity profile] cinderella81.livejournal.com


I will keep you and yours in my thoughts, hon ... family crisis are no fun ... I'm glad things are getting a bit better for you *huggles*

From: [identity profile] taylorgibbs.livejournal.com


Thanks so much! I thought they were but today brought crises with DH's family :(

From: [identity profile] murgy31.livejournal.com


If there is anything that I can do, please do not hesitate to call me, or text. I am glad that you are finally feeling better, and I am sorry to hear about your mom's friend. I am going through something similar myself right now. All of my good thoughts are with you. *hugs*

From: [identity profile] hawk-soaring.livejournal.com


*hugs you* And here I've been moping about my shit. Glad you're starting to feel better. Maybe we can both find our muses together. I haven't written a thing in a week or more. *headdesk* Trying to pound something out tonight. I'm so far behind on my prompts.

From: [identity profile] taylorgibbs.livejournal.com


Hey, your shit is pretty major :( Many many hugs! My muse is raising his head so...I'm hopeful despite a night of no sleep/hysterical calls from Australia

From: [identity profile] silvertales.livejournal.com


Oh, hon! So many hugs (of the gentle variety.)

I am so sorry to hear about your mom's friend, my thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. I know it can be so very difficult when your physical circle of friends is very small and it all just seems to be piling on everyone so that no one seems to be able to catch a break.

I am glad your technical issues are done with, though, yay! That's at least once stress out of the way.

I did see PayPal's "backtrack" on their "we're not telling people what they can read" policy decision, but unfortunately, it's not a victory for the censorship they seem to be engaging in.

I hope your tummy problem settles soon, too, sweets! Your health is so very important, and I hope you get to feeling better soon!!

I'm always here if you want to chat, as always. *HUG*

From: [identity profile] taylorgibbs.livejournal.com


Gentle hugs back atcha!!!

The tech stresses being done (and a great backup system) are a huge weight off. It could have been--should have by all rights--been so much wore.

Unforuntakey, the paypal decision coming so late has destroyed a lot of writers' careers :(

From: [identity profile] kesterpan.livejournal.com


Sorry you've been going through so much, and very glad that things are starting to improve! You're a strong person, and I'm sure you'll come out on the other side of all this in a good place. Sending good, healing thoughts your way. *hugs*

From: [identity profile] taylorgibbs.livejournal.com


Thanks so much, Kes! Hugs and thoughts (and healing dog vibes) back!

From: [identity profile] lit-gal.livejournal.com


I'm so sorry life has ganged up on you so badly. I will keep my fingers crossed that it's all uphill from here.

From: [identity profile] kate2.livejournal.com


TaylorGibbs,

I am sorry to hear of all that's going..of course you get hungs and prayers....I do empathize. I have had weeks were it seems to be overwhelming and lately better...

From: [identity profile] taylorgibbs.livejournal.com


Thanks so much, Kate! I could handle a couple of quiet weeks (or even days)
sinfulslasher: (tony abby animated tacklehug)

From: [personal profile] sinfulslasher


Biggest of hugs! When it rains, it pours, doesn't it? :( I'm glad that things are finally calming down somewhat. I hate it when there are so many bad things happening at the same time that I don't know where to turn to. :(

As an update, in case you missed it, there's this TV show that's apparently not entirely too bad (unless you believe certain people in the fandom... *eyebrow raise*) that was picked up for a 10th season... ;)

From: [identity profile] taylorgibbs.livejournal.com


Back atcha! And you're right--it does. Now we have Aussie crises too :(

Yeah I heard about that show LOL!

From: [identity profile] firebirdblue.livejournal.com


*hugs* Hope the stress continues to subside.

Look forward to reading more when you have the time to write, but your peace of mind is more important than anything.

From: [identity profile] hilde.livejournal.com


*many hugs*

I am so sorry you've had such a hard time lately! I am really sorry for you mother's loss. I am very glad to hear your health has improved and I hope things will calm down at work.


From: [identity profile] ferneberga.livejournal.com


Oodles of hugs!! Hope life comes sunny side up soon. Sorry to hear your mum's friend finally passed away :-(
Take care of your health, hope you feel better ultra soon.

Thinking of you and yours.

Take care
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From: [identity profile] twicet.livejournal.com


That is a lot to deal with especially when you haven't been well yourself. I'm glad you are feeling a bit better.

Take care of yourself.

From: [identity profile] hinky-hippo.livejournal.com


You've been out of the loop! =(

I hope you feel really loopy soonest! ::hugs::

From: [identity profile] sunsaralyn.livejournal.com


Hey,hon. I've missed your presence on twitter, etc. Add my hugs and prayers to the list. We've been pretty sick ourselves, and finally (Hopefully) getting over it.

Hope to see you around a little more.

MOARBIGHUGS,
SARA

From: [identity profile] taylorgibbs.livejournal.com


Thanks so much! I've been around, as you know, just not so much :(

Feel better! HUGS!

From: [identity profile] cin1101.livejournal.com


I'm hoping everything will slowly return to normal for you and your family. Also will keep your mom's friend and her family in my prayers. Hugs!!
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