It was a time factor with mum, and she thought she'd have the bypass surgery in time and returned to the local hospital (she died in a London one, which meant dad had a 6 hour round trip daily), I've got in perspective now after nearly 4 years, I'm pleased to say though.

Hey! You might have started a new fashion with your portable i.v. and sleeve - lol

Now ain't that the truth about our type of work, coupled with the current situation we can't really say no to anything.